The book, "Getting Love Right: Learning the Choices of Healthy Intimacy," suggests asking yourself the following questions: "Are the people you are presently involved with capable of giving you what you want in a relationship?
Dating itself can be incredibly confusing, much less, defining what your relationship status is.
The difference between dating and being in a relationship can be subtle. Dating itself can be incredibly confusing, much less, defining what your relationship status is.
So, you are confused about the status of your dating relationship and you need to have "the big talk". The best way to have this discussion is directly, and in a friendly manner. Discussing your dating life via phone, e-mail or text allows for miscommunication.
Be direct and ask the person whom you are seeing if they want to be exclusive or not.
Are you currently involved with someone who has the potential to be a healthy partner?
" After giving these questions some thought, you will need to have a discussion with the person you are dating.
The difference between dating and being in a relationship can be subtle.
It is important to discuss relationship boundaries with the person you are dating, and be clear in your communications with them.
If the person you are seeing is reluctant to discuss the status of your relationship, give them a few days to consider it.
If they still shy away from discussion, this could be a red flag.
Living with somebody opposed to marriage won't make them change their mind, and moving in with somebody who expects marriage won't pacify their need for commitment.